Oversupply: 10 Tips for When You’re Engorged and Making Too Much Milk

I had oversupply and engorgement while breastfeeding ALL my babies. Here are 10 tips and tactics that may help if you’re experiencing oversupply too.

I had oversupply and engorgement while breastfeeding ALL my babies. And I learned 10 tips and tactics that may help if you're experiencing oversupply too.

As nursing mamas, we often hear what to do to boost milk supply. But what if we produce too much milk? It may sound like a luxury to have, but, believe me, oversupply can be extremely frustrating for everyone involved. I experienced it with two of my babies, and it took me some time to learn how to handle it.

In this post, I’ll share all my tactics to handle engorgement and oversupply while breastfeeding.

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Difference between engorged and fullness

Sometimes with oversupply, you are also going to deal with engorgement. Engorged breasts are painful and usually occur shortly after birth and subside within 5 days postpartum. If they continue, this is probably more breast “fullness” than engorgement, which is an inflammatory response that occurs with the onset of nursing. Either way, we’ll talk about some measures to help ease the discomfort of engorged breasts and oversupply in this post.

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Main issues with oversupply and engorgement

While certainly not pleasant, issues related to oversupply and engorgement can usually resolve in the first few weeks to months of having your baby. The two most problematic consequences include:

Foremilk and hindmilk imbalance

Having too much breast milk can result in baby consuming too much foremilk and not enough hindmilk. Foremilk is the thin, watery, and lactose-rich component of breast milk that is great for hydration and quick energy. Hindmilk is the creamy and fat-rich part of breast milk that provides nourishment, satiety, and contentment. It’s vital that baby gets a balance of both parts of milk to ensure optimal digestion and assimilation (not to mention a happy baby).

Breastfed babies who receive too much foremilk suffer with excess gas (thinking farting, lots of belching, hiccups, etc.), hunger and even colic. That’s because the foremilk can digest too quickly, without the fat of hindmilk to slow it down, resulting in malabsorption and intestinal distress, not to mention frequent feeding (and sore breasts!) since the milk isn’t as satiating. You can massage the breast during a feeding can also help mix up the milk so baby gets a more balanced feed.

Too fast or overactive letdown

And hand in hand with oversupply is often too fast of a letdown, which is often referred to as overactive letdown. Signs of fast letdown include baby choking, coughing, or pulling back at breast. Baby may also squeal, squeak, or gulping excessively while nursing because the breast milk is coming out too fast. For strategies for how to manage overactive letdown, see this post. Overactive letdown doesn’t always occur with too much milk (or oversupply) and vice versa. They each have their own set of issues and solutions. This post will focus on those who struggle with oversupply and engorgement.

Please note: the below suggestions would only be appropriate if your baby is gaining weight at a normal to above average rate.

Oversupply and engorgement suggestions

1. Give it time

Know that your oversupply is partly by design. In fact, most mamas have some degree of oversupply in the first 4-6 weeks postpartum to be sure baby has enough milk and there aren’t twins to feed. Coupled with this, most babies have an immature digestive system, are still learning how to extract milk effectively and usually have some sort of acid reflux.

As a result, we see babies struggling regardless of how much milk you have (or how fast your letdown is) because they are learning how to assimilate food outside of the womb. Take warm baths to soothe your engorged breasts and try to ride it out those first several weeks if you can. Many moms who struggle with engorgement and oversupply will self-regulate without any further action.  

2. Block feedings

Since milk production is generally based on a supply and demand loop, meaning the more you stimulate the breast, the more milk it will produce, you may want to offer just one breast per feeding. This tactic is called Block Feeding.

I remember thinking this would never work and I would get too engorged in the other breast, but I was wrong. While there were a few days of discomfort, my breasts quickly adjusted and this is how I ended up nursing Griffin throughout our entire breastfeeding relationship. For mom’s with severe oversupply issues, you can even offer that same breast for the next feeding and then offer the second breast five to ten minutes later. That way you can be sure baby will get all of the good hind milk, and it will probably be a more pleasant nursing experience, since the milk letdown won’t be as rapid as the breast empties.

You can also try massaging the breast during a feeding can also help mix up the milk so baby gets a more balanced feed. Block feeding will also help to regulate your overall milk production, since you’re not stimulating both breasts at each feeding. Be sure to work with a Lactation Consultant to decide if block feeding is right for you, and if you are in fact, dealing with oversupply.

3. Laid back breastfeeding

Also called biological nurturing, this often overlooked breastfeeding position is great for babies and mamas who are struggling with oversupply (and the digestive distress it can cause). When baby nurses from above the breast (lying tummy to tummy on a reclining mama) he is able to deal with overactive let down much better, since gravity is on his side.

Laid-back breastfeeding position illustration Mama Natural

Also, because fat floats, baby is more likely to get a balance of foremilk and hindmilk, stopping the cycle of oversupply. Here are some tips on how to do laid back breastfeeding from the La Leche League international website:

  1. Dress yourself and your baby as you choose.
  2. Find a bed or couch where you can lean back and be well supported— not flat, but comfortably leaning back so that when you put your baby on your chest, gravity will keep him in position with his body molded to yours.
  3. Have your head and shoulders well supported. Let your baby’s whole front touch your whole front.
  4. Since you’re leaning back, you don’t have a lap, so your baby can rest on you in any position you like. Just make sure her whole front is against you.
  5. Let your baby’s cheek rest somewhere near your bare breast.
  6. Help her as much as you like; help her do what she’s trying to do. You’re a team.
  7. Hold your breast or not, as you like.
  8. Relax and enjoy each other.

4. Avoid galactagogues

Say what?! A galactagogue is a food that promotes lactation in breastfeeding moms. Examples include: oats, brewer’s yeast, flaxseed, hummus, papaya, spinach, carrots, asparagus, salmon, and apricots. Lactation-promoting herbs include: roasted dandelion root, fenugreek, blessed thistle, and red raspberry leaf. Try to avoid heavy consumption of these foods and definitely avoid the herbs if you want to keep from making too much milk. And while my lactation cookies are delicious, keep them off the menu 🙂

5. Consider donating

If you have a large milk supply beyond the 6-8 week mark, consider donating your excess milk. You can pump once or multiple times a day, depending on what works for you and how much you enjoy pumping ;), and set this milk aside for a baby in need. This is such a tremendous service you’re giving another mama and baby. I’ve donated milk before and it’s such an amazing feeling! Check out Eats on Feets or Human Milk for Human Babies for donation needs and locations. Of course, for working moms, you can also pump and store your excess milk in your freezer for your own baby. Here’s a post all about pumping and storing breast milk. Both donating and storing extra is one of the blessings of oversupply.

6. Use cold compresses

Cold compresses help to reduce breast inflammation, blood flow and milk production. Start with 10 minutes on each breast and work up to 30 if needed. Always take at least an hour break between compresses. This should help ease the pain of full or engorged breasts.

7. Slight hand expression

If you don’t want to donate milk, do not pump within those first 4-6 weeks as this will only increase your supply. If your breasts are so engorged and the inflammation is painful, you can get in a warm shower and hand express a little bit of milk to offer relief. Obviously, you don’t want to expel a lot of milk as this will only set yourself up for more production. However, using hand expressing strategically can be a great aid when you’re struggling with oversupply and engorgement.

8. Gua sha

When paired with proper breastfeeding techniques, studies suggest Gua Sha reduces engorgement and discomfort in the immediate postpartum period better than massage and hot packs do.

9. Try this sage advice (with caution)

If it’s really bad… and you need to relief… you can try adding more sage to your cooked foods or even sage tea. Due to naturally occurring estrogen, sage helps to reduce milk production. Use very cautiously though, and definitely under the care of a lactation consultant or doctor. In addition, you can use cold cabbage leaf compresses, a natural remedy used to ease tender, engorged breasts for centuries. You simply take green cabbage leaves and store in refrigerator or freezer so they are nice and cool. Apply to breast for 20 minutes up to 3 times a day. Again, only do this under the supervision of a IBCLC, as this can reduce breast milk supply.

10. Get help

This goes without saying and really should be the first action step. There are so many great resources out there so no need to struggle alone! I always recommend a check up with a properly certified lactation consultant (and have done so myself with both of my kiddos.) They are worth their weight in gold and give you hands-on help with oversupply/too fast of letdown issues. You can find one in your area here. Additionally, consider attending a local La Leche or Breastfeeding USA meeting. These organizations are helping nursing mamas for decades…. and they’re FREE!

It will pass…

While oversupply can definitely feel uncomfortable, it can also be a blessing. The key is to give your body, breasts, and baby time to adjust to breastfeeding — trust the process, get support, and use the resources above, and you should be able to manage engorgement, breast fullness, and oversupply successfully.

When I was feeling frustrated, it helped to remember how beneficial breastfeeding is and know that it’s hard for nearly everyone for those first 6-8 weeks. By 3 months, you’ll be getting into the swing of things and by 6 months, you and your baby will be pros. Hang in there, mama! You’re doing great 🙂 and this too shall pass.

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Genevieve Howland

About the Author

Genevieve Howland is a doula and childbirth educator. She is the bestselling author of The Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth and creator of the Mama Natural Birth Course. A mother of three, graduate of the University of Colorado, and YouTuber with over 135,000,000 views, she helps mothers and moms-to-be lead healthier and more natural lives.

57 Comments

  1. The point about “block feeding” really resonated with me. It’s such a counterintuitive idea when you’re feeling engorged and desperate to relieve that pressure, but it makes so much sense from a supply-and-demand perspective. I remember battling oversupply with my first, and while I tried a few different things, I wish I’d understood the concept of signaling to my body that less was needed. It’s a delicate balance, isn’t it? Similar to how we manage energy supply and demand in other sectors; a consistent, managed output is often more stable than unpredictable surges. I’ve been exploring how to optimize and stabilize energy flow in residential settings, and the principles of managing surplus feel surprisingly analogous. You can read more about managing energy systems on Spire ESS.

  2. The point about “block feeding” making a lot of sense. It’s like strategically rationing your supply to signal your body to dial it back, which seems much more controlled than just trying to pump less and hoping for the best. I found with my own experience that the constant engorgement was really painful and also made it hard for my little one to latch properly. It’s definitely not the “luxury” some people might imagine. I wrote about a similar approach to managing resource allocation in a strategic context on MW4 Hub and the underlying principle of controlled reduction rather than just hoping for a natural decrease is quite similar. Did you find that the relief from engorgement was immediate or did it take a few cycles of block feeding?

  3. The point about block feeding really resonated with me, as that was one of the only things that gave me relief when I was dealing with oversupply with my second child. It’s so counterintuitive to *not* feed on demand when you’re trying to establish breastfeeding, but it worked wonders. I also found that cold compresses after feeding, not before, helped to signal my body to slow down production. It’s definitely a balancing act, and it’s great to see practical advice like this shared. I wrote about a similar approach to managing different aspects of a challenging process on Horizon 6 Guide and found that persistence and trying various methods is key.

  4. The point about “block feeding” really resonated with me. I remember feeling so overwhelmed with engorgement, and the idea of strategically feeding from one breast at a time to signal a reduction in supply was a game-changer. It took a bit of trial and error to get the timing right, but it made a noticeable difference in my comfort. I also found that cold compresses, as mentioned, were a lifesaver for immediate relief. It’s so true that oversupply often gets overlooked in favor of advice on *increasing* supply. I even wrote about a similar approach to managing resource levels in a tactical sense on my Borderlands 4 toolkit, and it struck me how similar the principles of strategic reduction and management are, even in completely different contexts! It’s a tough situation, but these practical tips are invaluable.

  5. The point about block feeding being a way to signal the body to reduce supply really resonated with me. It’s so counterintuitive when you’re engorged and just want to relieve the pressure, but actively *not* emptying the breast seems like the right long-term strategy. I struggled with oversupply for the first few months with my daughter, and while I found relief methods like cold compresses, I wish I’d understood the supply-and-demand mechanics better early on. It’s a delicate balance, and I’ve written about similar feedback loops in optimizing systems, like how AI can help refine even creative processes on AI Interior Lab. Understanding these signals is key, whether it’s milk production or design output!

  6. The tip about block feeding really resonated with me. I remember feeling so overwhelmed with engorgement, and trying to actively *reduce* supply felt counterintuitive at first. It’s so easy to fall into the trap of thinking “more is better” when it comes to milk, but for those of us struggling with oversupply, it’s a whole different ballgame. I found that consistently applying this method, even when my breasts felt painfully full, eventually helped regulate my production. I wrote about a similar approach on Plants vs Brainrots Hub and it’s fascinating how different strategies can work for different people. Did anyone else find specific positions or holds made a big difference when feeding a baby who was gulping too fast?

  7. The point about “block feeding” really resonated with me. When I was dealing with oversupply with my first, it felt like a constant battle. I tried a few different things, but the advice to feed from just one breast for a set period, then switch at the next feeding, was a game-changer. It took a few days, but I noticed a definite decrease in that painful engorgement. It’s so true that while boosting supply is often discussed, managing excess can be just as challenging, if not more so. For anyone still navigating this, I found a lot of helpful info on Plants vs Brainrots Hub that goes into detail about managing specific issues.

  8. The point about block feeding, particularly the suggestion to feed from one breast for a set period before switching, really resonated with me. I had significant oversupply issues with my first, and the constant engorgement was incredibly painful and exhausting. I tried a lot of different things, but block feeding was a game-changer once I got the hang of it. It took a few days for my body to adjust, but the relief was immense. It’s such a practical, actionable tip. I wrote about a similar approach to managing energy flow and balancing systems on Spire ESS and found that understanding the underlying mechanics helps immensely, which feels analogous to understanding how to balance milk production.

  9. The point about hand-expressing just enough to relieve engorgement before a feeding really resonated with me. I honestly struggled so much with oversupply and the discomfort that came with it during my breastfeeding journey. It was a constant battle to find that balance. I found that consistent, gentle relief was key, rather than trying to empty the breast completely, which just seemed to signal my body to make even more! It’s a delicate dance, for sure. I wrote about a similar approach on Abyss Roblox Codes and found that the gradual, controlled approach really helped regulate my supply over time without sacrificing comfort.

  10. The suggestion to use cold compresses and the advice about hand expressing “just enough to relieve discomfort” really resonated with me. I went through a similar struggle with oversupply with my first, and the engorgement was incredibly painful. It felt like a constant battle to keep things manageable. I remember feeling so overwhelmed, and honestly, there were days I just wanted to quit. It’s good to see these practical tips laid out so clearly. I wrote about a similar approach to managing supply fluctuations and maintaining comfort on Borderlands 4 toolkit and found that consistency was key, even when it felt like too much effort. For anyone out there dealing with this, know you’re not alone and these methods can make a real difference.

  11. The point about using cold compresses after feeding is so crucial, and something I wish I’d understood better early on. It really helps reduce inflammation. I remember feeling so uncomfortable and just not knowing what to do beyond trying to feed more, which of course, made it worse. It’s a tricky balance, isn’t it? The article’s advice on hand expressing just enough to relieve discomfort before a feed is spot-on; it takes the edge off without signaling your body to make even more milk. I actually wrote about a similar approach to managing visual oversupply in images on AI Image Extender and found that precise adjustments were key. It’s reassuring to see these principles applied to something as fundamental as breastfeeding.

  12. The point about “block feeding” really resonated with me, as that was a lifesaver when I was dealing with oversupply. It felt counterintuitive at first, not feeding on demand from both sides, but it made such a difference in regulating production. I also found that very cool, damp cloths on my breasts between feedings helped immensely with the discomfort of engorgement. It’s so true that while boosting supply gets a lot of attention, managing excess is a whole other challenge. I wrote about a similar approach to managing comfort and supply on Pokopia Crystals and found that consistent, gentle methods were key. Thanks for sharing these practical tips!

  13. The point about shallow latch being a potential cause for oversupply really resonated with me. It’s something I struggled with immensely when my first was born, and it definitely contributed to the engorgement I experienced. It’s so counterintuitive because you think a baby *should* be able to get what they need, but sometimes it’s more complex. I found that focusing on deep latch techniques, even if it meant pumping a little to soften things before feeding, made a huge difference. It’s a delicate balance, and I wish more resources highlighted this connection early on. It’s a bit like trying to get a perfect passport photo; small details about alignment and expression make all the difference, and sometimes you need a tool like AnyPassportPhoto to ensure you meet the specs.

  14. The point about hand expressing just enough to relieve discomfort, rather than fully emptying, really resonated with me. It’s such a counterintuitive approach when you’re so used to thinking about “emptying the breast,” but it makes perfect sense for managing oversupply. I remember feeling so much pain with my first, and it took me ages to figure out that trying to pump it all out was actually making it worse. It’s a delicate balance, for sure. I actually wrote about a similar approach to managing resource abundance in a different context on Abyss Roblox Codes and found that strategic, limited intervention is often key. This is a fantastic resource for new moms dealing with this!

  15. The point about cold compresses after feeding rather than before really resonated with me. I remember the sheer discomfort of engorgement with my first and how nothing seemed to offer lasting relief. I tried everything from cabbage leaves (which were surprisingly effective, though a bit odd!) to frequent pumping, but it often felt like a vicious cycle. It’s interesting how seemingly simple adjustments, like the timing of cold therapy, can make such a difference. It makes me wonder if some of the more complex strategies I researched, like exploring AI tools for generating professional images for personal branding, could have been simplified with a better understanding of these fundamental techniques. Perhaps the same goes for managing other aspects of life; sometimes the most straightforward solutions are the most overlooked.

  16. The point about “block feeding” being a potential temporary solution really resonated with me. I remember the discomfort of engorgement vividly, and while my strategy was slightly different – focusing more on gentle hand expression just for relief rather than full emptying – the underlying goal of signaling to the body to slow down production is the same. It’s such a tricky balance, isn’t it? You want to provide enough for your baby, but not so much that it causes pain and feeding issues. I’ve seen how much stress oversupply can add to the already demanding early days of motherhood.

  17. The point about block feeding really resonated with me. I experienced oversupply with my first and it was so uncomfortable and stressful. I remember trying to relieve the fullness but not really knowing the best way to approach it without signaling my body to make even more milk. The article’s explanation of how block feeding can help regulate supply by signaling “use it or lose it” makes so much sense in hindsight. I’ve been researching different approaches to milk supply management and found that understanding the body’s cues is key, much like managing character builds in games. I wrote about a similar approach to understanding complex systems on NTE Codes Hub and found that consistent application of a well-understood strategy is crucial. It’s great to see practical advice for something so common yet often challenging for new mothers.

  18. The point about hand expressing just a little bit before feeding to relieve pressure really resonated with me. I remember those initial days of overwhelming engorgement, and it felt like I was constantly trying to get ahead of it. The advice to feed from the less full breast first is also brilliant – simple, but so effective when you’re in the thick of it. It’s funny how something as basic as a photo needing to meet specific requirements, like for a passport, has its own set of rules, and breastfeeding can feel just as structured with its own challenges. I wrote about a similar approach to managing details on AnyPassportPhoto and found that clear guidelines make a huge difference. This article offers such practical, compassionate advice for a really tough situation.

  19. I really appreciated the focus on the discomfort and challenges of oversupply. It’s so often framed as a “good problem to have,” but as you detailed, the engorgement and let-down issues can be incredibly difficult. The tip about the cold cabbage leaves is a classic, but I also found that very frequent, small feeds, even if it felt counterintuitive, helped my body regulate. It’s a delicate balance. I’ve been exploring how to manage various creative processes, and it struck me that some of the principles of managing output and avoiding overwhelm are similar, whether it’s milk supply or digital content. For instance, I wrote about a similar approach to managing creative flow on ai colorpage and found that consistency, even in small doses, was key. Thanks for sharing these practical strategies!

  20. The point about reverse cycle ovulation being a potential factor in oversupply really resonated with me. It’s something I hadn’t considered before, and it makes a lot of sense that hormonal fluctuations could play a role beyond just the immediate postpartum period. I went through a similar struggle with oversupply and engorgement with my first child, and it was incredibly uncomfortable and stressful. Finding the right balance was a challenge. I wrote about a similar approach to managing it on KCD2Quest and found that understanding the underlying causes, not just the symptoms, was key. The tip about cold compresses and cabbage leaves, while seemingly old-fashioned, was a lifesaver for me during particularly painful engorgement episodes. It’s comforting to see a comprehensive list of tactics that address this often-overlooked aspect of breastfeeding.

  21. The point about block feeding really resonated with me. When I was dealing with oversupply with my first, I tried everything, but it was the advice to feed from one side for a set period that finally made a difference. It felt counterintuitive at first, but it really helped regulate my supply. I even wrote about a similar approach on lily lovebraids and found that consistency was key. It’s so important for moms to know that oversupply isn’t a “good problem” to have; it can be genuinely uncomfortable and challenging. Thanks for sharing these practical tips!

  22. The point about feeding baby in a reclined position really resonated with me. I remember my first baby struggling with the forceful letdown, and how much calmer things became once I tried lying back a bit. It’s such a simple adjustment but made a huge difference in preventing choked episodes. I also found that hand expressing a little bit before feeding helped tremendously with the initial engorgement. It’s interesting how sometimes the most effective solutions are the ones that require the least amount of extra “stuff.” I’ve been exploring different ways to manage creative processes lately, and I wrote about a similar approach to streamlining tasks on myink ai and found that simplifying often leads to better outcomes, much like with breastfeeding.

  23. The tips on managing oversupply and dealing with engorgement are especially useful for new moms who may feel overwhelmed during the early weeks of breastfeeding 99 nights in the forest.

  24. Just so no misinformation is spread- you can not “mix up” your foremilk and hindmilk. Please do some real research on what foremilk/ hindmilk are and the content of your milk in general. So moms reading this please don’t start bouncing and massaging your boobs around trying to shake the milk up. I’m shocked someone with this large of a platform has this misinformation in her page.

  25. I have had super crazy oversupply and engorgement with all 4. One thing not mentioned in the article is that it causes mastitis!! So, I’d say don’t ride it out, def work to regulate asap.

    Most lactation consultants have zero experience w oversupply. So, beware of them. Baby with lip or tongue tie can also create oversupply due to bad latch.

    And lastly, cabbage leaves are fantastic, the ONLY thing that has worked for me … They are so powerful, I’d say just 5 minutes once a day.

  26. It’s really motivating and I am experiencing breast fullness. I’m on 7weeks pp now

  27. If I am still full to the point I wake up in discomfort in the middle of the night when baby has fed (2 weeks old and is gaining weight) should I pump?

  28. Thanks for this article. Just wanted to add that the worst possible thing you can do with oversupply is to pump or hand express (in case of emergency, hand express only the bare minimum!). As a mother of four who has consistently dealt with oversupply, I have found that pumping in almost all circumstances is a huge no no. And, as unpopular in many circles as it may be, setting a very consistent schedule (one that is good for baby, of course!) is your next best friend. In extreme cases of constant oversupply such as mine, it is also helpful to monitor about how long your baby eats per side, and then always stick to that. If baby eats for longer periods as an older baby, up their time per side as needed, but again, then keep it very consistent.
    Hopefully this helps someone. I have been through rough times as a result of oversupply, and these tips have helped me perservere.

  29. Wow, really useful. My son is just give weeks and I noticed I have an oversupply. But while reading I discovered much little mistake. I do pump and store hoping it would be better only to find it bigger than before few hours later. Thanks for this article. You’re the best.

  30. Thank you so much for this article. You have given me hope! I am suffering quite bad from engorgement everyday and night to the point i cant move my arms (breasts swollen and painful to even under armpit) and i feel like giving up bf altogether. My baby is 7 days old today and is tongue tie… that reaaally doesnt help!! But, your advice, at least about riding it out is very plausible. I will buy cabbage today! Im bookmarking this page 🙂

    Thank you xx

  31. You mention to only use these tips if LO is gaining weight normally or above average. What do you recommend if they are NOT gaining weight? My daughter was born 7 lbs 3 oz and dropped to 6lbs 7 oz within a few days. Now at 3 weeks, she is still 6 lbs 11 oz (hasn’t gained any weight in over a week). Feeding always seems to be battle, she is almost always hungry, but chokes often and pulls away after 10 minutes or so. She spits up a lot and seems to have a lot of tummy trouble. She has a great latch (when she will take the breast), changing my diet hasn’t helped, and I always have more milk to give, over supply is the first thing that has made sense, but I don’t know how to solve it for her. Have thought about feeding expressed milk, but don’t want to make the problem worse by pumping. Please help, I feel like I’m watching my little girl starve.

    • I would pump out a few ounces first, then offer her the breast. This will solve 2 problems: first, she will get more calories from the richer hind milk, 2, the let down gets less severe the more empty you are.

      • Also, this will make her less gassy and have less digestive problems because she will be getting more than just the foremilk, which causes digestion distress, which is all she was getting the first 10 minutes. 3 problems fixed!

  32. Breast massage and Healthy nursing tea are the two ways I used for boosting my low breast milk production and got my milk supply increased so that I can exclusively breastfeed my little one.

  33. Any tips on how to wean with oversupply, besides the typical advice of doing it slowly? No duh. My babe is 2 and a half and I think I am more scared for myself to wean rather than him. I struggled for over 4 months with extreme oversupply and reoccurring plugs/mastitis and eventually abscess. It got better but I am so scares it will happen all over again as we try to wean. :/

    • I know doing it slowly seems like a no-brainer, but doing it reeeaaallly slowly might be the best way to go. Try dropping 1 feed no more than every three days.

      • I mean no LESS than every 3 days. 🙂

    • Try taking enzymes to help with clogged ducts. I use high potency body ecology enzymes and haven’t had a clog since!

    • What’s worked for us is decreasing the duration for one nursing session at a time. Dropping about 5 minutes at a time, every few days.

    • Also, cabbage in your bra might help.

  34. Very helpful indeed

  35. Please help. It’s been a month and I am suffering with such pain. I want to keep breastfeeding but I’m not sure I can keep doing this. My breasts refill and become engorged and painful after every feeding. I try ice packs and hand expressing little amounts for comfort. I don’t pump, I do the laid back position so baby won’t get frustrated with too much milk. It’s not getting better. Everyone keeps saying give it time it will get better. But it’s not. Some days seem worse. I mentioned cabbage leaves to my LC but she’s worried that will dry me up too much. I’ve already had mastitis and i fear I’m going to have it again.

    • Look up reverse pressure softening. I only did this a few times and only a few minutes prior to feeding in order to facilitate a latch. My LO is also lip tied. Apparently some engorgement is related to IV and oxytocin.

    • Block feed! It’s the only that saved me, in the begining I stayed on each breast multiple times, so that there was more like 4-6 hours in between before I went back to the same breast. Does that make sense? Example: right breast whenever baby is hungry and don’t switch to the left until the right has been completely emptied then switch and do the same. This was the only thing that helped me, cabbage did nothing. Once you get mastitis you are more susceptible to getting it again, not to mention everything you have to do to get rid of mastitis encourages more oversupply. Vicious cycle. Trust your instincts rather than purely what the lactation consultant says.

      • Christi, what do you do when you feed only with one breast and other becomes full ? I don’t deal with painful engorgement yet but one breast becomes too full an hour or two after feeding. I feed from both breasts. I also get up at night to pump while I am full and my four month old daughter is asleep. Disturbs sleep. I am tired of pumping and breastfeeding and want to reduce my supply to have milk available every 4-4.5 hours rather than 2 hours. I can hardly leave house due to becoming full too soon. I occasionally formula feed baby at night.

        • I would try to nurse on one side per session, and end with just a little bit from the other side – just enough to relieve some pressure. I leaked a lot (3-8 oz every 30-90 minutes). The block feeding definitely helped the most. I also got some non-suction catcher cups to keep in my bra, and slept naked with a towel over me. It finally lessened enough for me to manage it with disposable nursing pads around three months.

  36. To increase breast milk, healthy nursing tea by secrets of tea is the perfect solution.

  37. If you tandem nurse (nursing 2 babies or 1 infant and 1 older one), it can cause oversupply. I experienced that for quite a while – it’ll pass. And donating milk is a great option. I know you feel like a machine, but you will make it through. It was 8 months of craziness oversupply issues, but ended up blessing tons of people with thousands of ounces of milk. Hang in there, moms!

  38. You should NOT pump if you have an oversupply. That only makes it worse!

    Also, block feeding DID give me mastitis. If you start feeling heavy fullness or definitely pain in the other side, stop block feeding and NURSE! Also, wear a very loose bra.

    • The first mastitis sign I notice is a mild warmth and tenderness.

  39. There’s also a connection between tongue/lip ties and thyroiditis! Thanks for this helpful post!

  40. Oh, this topic just makes me mad! Because with my first four babies, I was so engorged within 2 days that there was nothing for the baby to latch onto. All the breast feeding nazis kept telling me that if I would just get a clue and persuade the baby to latch properly, I’d not be blistered. But when you are swollen to the point of having the shape of a cantaloupe, there is nothing for the baby to get hold of!

    They kept telling me to pump to reduce the engorgement before I nursed the baby, as though that would soften it up enough. But it did not. They stayed rock hard. They were just as hard after the baby nursed as they were when the baby started in.

    You see, the thing that they never understood, nor admitted, is that I wasn’t really engorged. Not in the way you think of engorgement in being full of milk. There was actually VERY LITTLE milk in there!

    It is just that my milk came in so fast that the milk ducts ended up stretched, and that caused edema in my breasts. It wasn’t the ducts that were full, causing the hardness, it was the tissues between and around them that was swollen and bruised. My boobs stood out like I’d invested in quite a bit of silicone, I did not even need a bra for support they were so perky! But the nipple also swelled and stretched so that the baby could not latch on. It was like trying to get a baby to latch onto an egg – so swollen that everything was just round.

    After quite a bit of effort with each nursing, the baby would manage finally to reduce the edema enough to at least feed, but it was extraordinarily painful, and the fluid refilled all the tissue as soon as I was done nursing. It generally lasted about three weeks. Three whole weeks of kicking my feet and trying not to cry every time the baby nursed.

    Four children with that. Another three with about half of that. And twice when my milk came in, and there was no baby to relieve it. When I’d have gladly endured the pain and kicked my feet and bit my lip to keep from crying from that pain, rather than cry from the loss of those cherished little girls.

    Nipple shields were useless – they just put another layer of something to rub between baby and me. Ointments, teabags, drying out, all that, never helped. There was nothing to do but endure, while the engorgement persisted for two weeks, and then another week for the blisters and bleeding scabs to heal.

    I WISH I had the answer to this. The only answer I came up with was this:

    With the babies I had that nursed within an hour or two of birth, I had LESS engorgement than I did with those that did not nurse for a few hours after birth. And the WORST one, was the one that was born with a bowel problem, and I pumped some before she came home, but my milk barely came in (it just did not let down for the pump). Then when she began nursing full time, it came in with a bang, and was worse than with any of the others. SOOOO bad. I layed on my back in bed and cried because it hurt when she wasn’t nursing too.

    That is the only thing I figured out. Prevention where possible, because when the baby nurses soon, the milk comes in more gradually. If the baby waits, it seems to come in more suddenly, and cause more edema. I didn’t always have control over WHEN they nursed after birth, my labors and deliveries were not exactly normal.

    With the three that I was able to nurse soon after birth, there was far less engorgement. I still had edema, and was still sore. I still got blisters, but one or two, and not covered in them. No bleeding scabs. And it was over with in about a week and a half.

    Yeah… it was bad. But truthfully, I’d do it again if that is the price for giving a baby all that is best.

    • I’m sooo sorry for your losses….been there.

    • I know this post is a little old but I am having the same problem, Laura. Did you have to go to a Dr for the edema? I am in so so much pain and am only 3 days Post partum. The lactation consultant I giving me all these tips to relieve it but nothing is helping. I don’t want to develop mastitis and am worried I will get infected. Poor baby boy can’t nurse but even when he does my breasts don’t feel any better.

      • This happened with my first baby & I am having the same problem now, only my baby is 6 days old. I am on day 3 of severe pain in breasts & each day has gotten more painful.
        It’s very hard to sleep or relax.

        I was told to pump until breast felt soft but after pumping, hand expressing, or nursing they swell up & harden just as bad with no relief. My milk comes out easily & quickly. My baby has acid reflux & chokes a lot while nursing, burps a lot afterwards, winces, spits up large amounts & cries in pain a lot. She latches on well though.

        This same thing happened with my first child. (This is my 3rd) I had so many blisters, scabs, & raw nipples for months. I’m so nervous it will be that bad again as they are already so hard, lumpy, & painful!!

        Any good advice would be so helpful! I hope others with this problem can find answers as well!

        • With my first it was constant engorgement every 3-5 days for the first 2 months. With my 2nd it was under control in 2 weeks.

          I pumped each side till fully empty either right before or right after nursing on that side. I drank sage tea. And I did block feeding. I ended up having to go almost 24 hours on one side and then 20 on the other before they regulated. When they were too hard I also soaked and massaged/hand expressed milk with either olive oil or inserted in a bowl of warm water till they were softened enough for baby to drink. After nursing I used cold compresses (frozen bags of peas) to relieve pain and swelling.

  41. Hey Genevieve.

    I had this issue in the beginning and it could have very well been from those foods, I ate them quite frequently!
    Now almost a year breastfeeding I still leak from time to time… I was wondering if leakage ever goes away! I would love to go bra-less or at least without breastpads …. Any tips???!

    Thanks.


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