Staying Mentally Strong Helped Ashley During Labor

When did you realize you were really in labor?

I had been having steady contractions all day but I didn't believe I was really in labor until my water broke.

What was the most challenging thing about going natural?

The unknown- not knowing how things were going to go during labor and delivery for baby and I and keeping my mind strong and focused.

What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?

I followed mama natural and read her blog and watch her birth videos along with lots of other birth stories. I read Ina May's Guide to Birth. I felt very mentally prepared.

What surprised you about your birth?

The lack of pain or misery that is associated with labor. My body completely knew what to do and I just followed along with the natural course my body was on to deliver the baby. I was talso surprised a how quick my labor was. I ended up having my 3rd daughter (1st c-section, 2nd VBAC) naturally standing up in my kitchen about an hour after my water broke. Two pushes and she was born. My husband delivered her. It was definitely surprising! Truly one of the most amazing and empowering experiences of my life.

I used no pain techniques but walking, moving, pacing around my bedroom. I couldn't keep still. Also reminding myself my body could do this. Staying mentally strong.

What pain relief strategies worked best?

I used no pain techniques but walking, moving, pacing around my bedroom. I couldn't keep still. Also reminding myself my body could do this. Staying mentally strong.

What position did you end up delivering in?

Standing. I never sat from the time my water broke to delivery.

How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?

Surreal. Amazing. Relief.

What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?

Prepare yourself mentally. Know what to expect during labor and delivery. Follow MamaNatural and read Ina May. Hire a doula! I had one by my labor was so quick she didn't make it but she was key to my VBAC. Positive affirmations. Believe in yourself and your body!