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When did you realize you were really in labor?
I realised I was in labour around 11 am, about an hour and a half before I delivered my baby boy. My second midwife arrived and I said "I don't feel like I am getting a break between them now". That's when I was sure I was in active labour, and my sweet babe was definitely on his way!
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What was the most challenging thing about going natural?
At times, as I got further and further into labour, I wished I was in hospital so all the pain could go away with an epidural or some other drugs. My birth companions kept me going though, and those feelings dissipated quickly.
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What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?
I researched every aspect, and made informed choices. My birth was beautifully natural and safe, because I made informed choices that were supported by my midwives and birth companions.
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What surprised you about your birth?
How present I was for every second. I went off into a birthing zone with my other two births, and do not remember most of them. I was in this birth for every second and it was very real.
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Do not be bullied, be informed. You always have choices.
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What pain relief strategies worked best?
Tens machine, Lavender and massage.
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What position did you end up delivering in?
On my knees, in my birth pool in my living room.
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How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?
I was so relieved. I'd had three weeks of prodromal labor, and he was born on his due date. I was so relieved he was safe, and here with us. I felt so much love for this little person, there had been a longing for him, so strong. I felt like I'd known him my entire life and I was waiting for him to return to me.
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What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?
Research, research, research! Do not be bullied, be informed. You always have choices.
