Birth Stories

Repeating To Herself That Her Body is Made For Birthing Helped Valerie During Her Hospital Birth

  • When did you realize you were really in labor?

    About 3 in the afternoon. I work nights and woke up about 1:30 pm with a really strong contraction. I took a bath and showered and the contractions didn't stop. I texted my boyfriend to let him know that I thought I was in labor and we might want to start the hour and a half drive to the hospital.

  • What was the most challenging thing about going natural?

    It went so quickly. I got to the hospital at 5pm and was only 2cm dilated. At 8:15 I was 8 and wanted to push. I had the dr. break my water to help me get to 10. Naomi was born at 9:46pm. I joked while I was pushing about wanting the drugs and how c-sections have there place. I ended up with a 1st degree tear but big headed babies can do that.

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  • What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?

    I kept repeating my body is made for this, I can do it. I wouldn't let the dr induce me or schedule a 2nd c-section. I made it very clear to every dr that I met that I was going to have a natural vbac.

  • What surprised you about your birth?

    I did it! I went in and did what I had set out to do. 8 pound 12 ounces and 21 inches later my baby was born.

  • Be positive and know you can do it.
  • What pain relief strategies worked best?

    I breathed with purpose. The birthing ball was wonderful and my boyfriend provided counter-pressure to my hips during contractions.

  • What position did you end up delivering in?

    Unfortunately I was on my back. I think if I had been squatting it may have been a little easier

  • How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?

    Wonderful. I had waited so long for her.

  • What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?

    Be positive and know you can do it.

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