Praying a Lot and Reminding Herself That God Was In Control Helped Tiegra During Her Hospital Birth

When did you realize you were really in labor?

1/10/17 I had a long early labor. It started around 6am and when contractions had continued by 2pm. I was sure this was the real deal!

What was the most challenging thing about going natural?

I labored at home just like I did with my first. This labor my contractions were not coming consistently at 3-7 min apart they would range from 12 min to 3 min apart and I was unsure if my body was doing what it needed to in progressing. Also having to care for a toddler while in labor was difficult. I wanted quiet and calm and I didn't have what I envisioned

What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?

I prayed a lot! Reminded myself that God was in control.

What surprised you about your birth?

I felt the ring of fire this time. Also I was nervous I wouldn't know when to leave for the hospital. I didn't want to go in too early. When it came time it was like instinct, I knew when it was time.

Make your mind up. I felt I didn't give myself a plan B! Also get a doula!! The support emotionally and help with pain relief is so helpful!

What pain relief strategies worked best?

As a breathed through each contraction I imagined what my body was doing. Opening and working my baby down. Also my partner did hip squeeze or sacral pressure during contractions.

What position did you end up delivering in?

On my back. I thought I would birth hands and knees by the nurse and dr told me no. I was a little disappointed since I requested to deliver how I wanted and my dr said that was fine but I didn't feel like arguing while in labor and feeling ready to push.

How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?

Amazing!

What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?

Make your mind up. I felt I didn't give myself a plan B! Also get a doula!! The support emotionally and help with pain relief is so helpful!