Not Knowing What To Expect Helped Gloria During Her Hospital Birth

When did you realize you were really in labor?

I had an appointment at my OBGYN. When I arrived at gyno office I explained to her that last night I thought I had peed on the bed.. She explained that was not urine but instead my water had broke and I had contractions- if dr had not told me I would not have known or even noticed

What was the most challenging thing about going natural?

Once the epidural effects ran out - I think the crowning of my baby's head was really uncomfortable other than that I did not think labor was difficult (ofcourse I had an epidural which was awesome!) I think the post-labor was the hardest part - the week after delivery I felt a train had ran over me - also I bled for about 4 weeks after delivering (which is normal) so I was weak and sleep deprived - plus all the muscles you use during labor where soar - I mean legs, hips, arms even your butt hole hurts -

What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?

Nothing I actually did not prepare and I'm glad bc I went in not knowing what to expect and drew my own conclusions making it a positive experience instead of a scary experience like they portray in movies

What surprised you about your birth?

How easy it actually is -- hmmm well with epidural that is

Totally Recommend natural - it's an amazing experience yet I would totally recommend ask for epidural as soon as you start feeling those contractions bothering you - why suffer?

What pain relief strategies worked best?

Hold my husband's hands

What position did you end up delivering in?

On my back

How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?

Surreal - stunned - amazing -

What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?

Totally Recommend natural - it's an amazing experience yet I would totally recommend ask for epidural as soon as you start feeling those contractions bothering you - why suffer?