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When did you realize you were really in labor?
At 4am on Sunday September 4th I woke up wondering why I couldn't feel my baby moving. I called the doctor because I was feeling paranoid and also texted my doula. As I was on the phone with the doctor I felt my first contraction.
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What was the most challenging thing about going natural?
Not knowing how painful it would be for me due to a couple things going on. Despite the extreme pain, I went 16 hours before opting for an epidural. Also, it was challenging to think I may not deliver naturally despite my plan to. I ended up having to have a C section due to the inability to push my baby past my pelvis.
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What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?
Breathing exercises, healthy diet with natural supplements, homeopathics and essential oils. I believe all that kept me healthy and calm during what would be described as a very rough labor and attempted delivery.
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What surprised you about your birth?
The coupling contractions I experienced. I was always told and read that you get a break between contractions, which I rarely did. I was also surprised that I couldn't deliver naturally but am okay with it now and just happy and blessed my baby boy came into this world healthy and happy.
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Despite not being able to deliver naturally, I know I did everything I could and put forth a huge effort and can't have any regrets. I know that being healthy and calm helped my baby remain healthy and that's all that matters. We only have so much control and I knew that I couldn't control the issues I ran into and that C section was the only option.
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What pain relief strategies worked best?
Hot shower and baths. Not laying down. Laboring standing, walking or on the exercise ball.
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What position did you end up delivering in?
Didn't. Had a C section unexpectedly.
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How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?
Absolutely amazing. The best moment of my life.
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What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?
Despite not being able to deliver naturally, I know I did everything I could and put forth a huge effort and can't have any regrets. I know that being healthy and calm helped my baby remain healthy and that's all that matters. We only have so much control and I knew that I couldn't control the issues I ran into and that C section was the only option.
