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When did you realize you were really in labor?
It was not until I was driving home from the nail salon, after having what I thought was Braxton Hicks for four hours, did I realize I was in labor. My contractions had been 3-6 minutes apart that entire time. About the time I got home I lost my mucus plug so I knew it was happening soon.
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What was the most challenging thing about going natural?
The most challenging thing was not listening to naysayers. As a first time mom I got some discouraging comments from strangers and sometimes family. It did make me second guess myself at times but I knew this was the best decision for myself and my baby.
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What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?
Read and watch lots of videos. I read lots of stories from moms that went natural and that was very very helpful for me.
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What surprised you about your birth?
How much birth is mind over matter. Having the correct mindset allows you to let go and work with your body.
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Trust your body. Trust your baby. Develop a good support system, whether in person or online. Give yourself permission to ask for help and let go.
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What pain relief strategies worked best?
Being able to labor in whatever position I chose was helpful. I thought that certain positions would be comfortable but while in labor they weren't. Also focusing on breathing through each contraction made them more bearable.
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What position did you end up delivering in?
I delivered sitting in a birthing pool.
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How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?
It was indescribable. I just couldn't believe I worked so hard to get her out and then all of a sudden there she was looking up at me.
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What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?
Trust your body. Trust your baby. Develop a good support system, whether in person or online. Give yourself permission to ask for help and let go.
