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When did you realize you were really in labor?
When my contractions weren't going away after changing positions and were getting stronger.
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What was the most challenging thing about going natural?
I was actually attempting a VBA2C and had a uterine rupture. I was rushed into an emergency c-section.
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What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?
Making sure my OB and I were on the same page as far as attempting the VBA2C; also, remembering that some circumstances are unpredictable and it's okay to be flexible.
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What surprised you about your birth?
I never thought I would fall in that 3% statistic of a uterine rupture. My son wasn't breathing when he was born, needed resuscitation and spent time in the NICU. His first 72 of life in the NICU were especially critical. But, praise God, he is now one month old and is thriving.
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Know your rights as the patient/mama and don't feel pressured into something you're not comfortable while at the same time respecting the professional opinion of the people around you. They are not the enemy, but you will always be your best advocate.
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What pain relief strategies worked best?
Swaying side to side while swaying, and my husband squeezing my hips.
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What position did you end up delivering in?
On my back for an emergency c-section
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How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?
I couldn't hold my son until more than 72 hours after he was born. When I finally could hold him I was overcome by the realization that we almost lost him and I was so grateful he was in my arms.
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What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?
Know your rights as the patient/mama and don't feel pressured into something you're not comfortable while at the same time respecting the professional opinion of the people around you. They are not the enemy, but you will always be your best advocate.
