Staying Educated, Healthy and Active Helped Rachel During Her Hospital Birth

When did you realize you were really in labor?

Actually the first contraction. It was different than all the Braxton Hicks I was having.

What was the most challenging thing about going natural?

I was fully dilated and was pushing for 4 hrs after 24 hrs of being in labor doing a home birth. I was rushed to the ER for an emergency c-section. The hardest part was to try to stop pushing and breath through the last few contractions. I was told to stop if I could because the baby was stuck and my pelvis was too small. His heart rate was dropping. I had no other choice but to get the epidural and have the c-section. I was afraid of losing him or dying having him.

What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?

I stayed very educated and informed about it all. I ate healthy and stayed active.

What surprised you about your birth?

The fact that my little one couldn't come through vaginally, especially after having literally no issues during the whole pregnancy. I had morning sickness, maybe 2 days and some swelling and back pain.

Definitely worth every bit of the pain. I literally can't remember it. Like you hear it said, once the baby is born, you don't remember it.

What pain relief strategies worked best?

Breathing slowly through contractions and having my husband or midwife pressing on my back during those contractions as they amplified.

What position did you end up delivering in?

Through a c-section.

How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?

I was exhausted after 28 hours and was in the recovery room. But it was amazing. I had so much love for this little guy!

What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?

Definitely worth every bit of the pain. I literally can't remember it. Like you hear it said, once the baby is born, you don't remember it.