DO YOU HAVE MOM HAIR? (MNShow 70)

December 20, 2012


QOTW: Do you have mom hair? How did your hair change after childbirth?

Toddler squats, living longer but sicker, and do you have mom hair? It’s episode 70 of the Mama Natural Show.

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Toddler squats, living longer but sicker, and do you have mom hair? It’s episode 70 of the Mama Natural Show.

First, stop….drop….and squat.

That’s what toddlers do.

They squat!

The ease and perfection of form in which they squat is mindboggling…

At least to us adults who have a hard time bending down just to touch our toes.

Sure, one might argue that toddlers are closer to the ground.

They’re also more flexible. And they have age on their side.

However, squatting is one of the best forms of fitness….for ANY age.

Here are a few inspirational toddler type squats you may just want to fit into your day,

Like when…

Eating or drinking….

Or walking in the rain….

How about when listening to music…..

Or while gardening….

Try to stop, drop and squat at work….

Or at play…. Look at those rolls!

Or for inspiration while creating a masterpiece….

Try “exercising” a little affection….

You might simply want to show offf…

Truth is we could learn a thing or two from toddlers….

One is fitness!

And two, stop and smell the roses….

Relearn to squat today!

Does a body good!

This next story affirms why people in the U.S. need to get active….to start moving.

It appears that America’s 2012 Health Rankings highlights the fact that we are indeed living longer – but sicker.

Deaths from heart disease and cancer are down.

Recent medical advancements have indeed saved lives.

But obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure and sedentary behavior are on the rise!

24 measures of health were factored in this study’s state-by-state rankings, including:
• Tobacco and alcohol abuse
• Exercise
• Infectious disease
• Crime rates
• Public health funding
• Premature birth rates
• And more
Vermont tops the list for the 6th consecutive year as the healthiest state to live.

Hawaii, New Hampshire, Massachusetts and Minnesota round out the top five.

While Mississippi and Louisiana tied at the bottom, due to tobacco consumption, binge drinking, lack of exercise and obesity.

Some notable improvements over the last year include:

• New Jersey – up 9 places on the list
• Maryland – up 5
• And Alabama, Colorado Massachusetts, Nebraska, Oklahoma and Rhode Island each moved up 3.

With the life expectancy in the US now at 78.5 years of age, the question we all should ask ourselves is do we want quantity or quality of life?

According to a new study, having children not only adds quality to one’s life but also quantity.

The surprising results indicate that parents live longer than childless couples.

This includes parents of all kinds: adoptive, foster, and biological.

The data links the changes in the parents’ behavior and lifestyle to a longer life.

Parents experience fewer accidents, circulatory diseases, cancer and exernal causes than childless couples.

They also apparently experience less stress than childless couples.

[Seriously? Spend a day with a mom!]

The study suggests that people with children have a greater social support system.

And that giving up sleep for a few years, perhaps makes a body stronger.

[That which does not kill us...]

It’s time for our community news.

The holiday season is a time to celebrate the miracle of birth! We have 2 lovely birth announcements and a real Christmas miracle.

Viewer Beth’s little miracle arrived on September 8th, a bit earlier than expected.

A home birth was planned, but at 35 weeks the baby stopped growing.

After waiting a couple weeks, Beth’s midwives decided to call in the big guns.

Beth was whisked off to the hospital.

Surprisingly, her team of doctors and nurses welcomed the midwives and doulas to create as natural birth as possible.

A birthing tub was used until the c-section was deemed necessary by ALL parties present.

Beth welcomed a daughter Audrey Elizabeth with the help of this amazing team of support.

She practices breast-feeding, cloth-diapering, co-sleeping, and baby-wearing.

Congratulations to Beth, Audrey and family.

Melissa and her wife welcomed their little miracle girl Aurora Elizabeth under midwife care.

Laboring at home for a while, Melissa was able to get some laundry done and even bake cupcakes for the staff.

Finally around 2AM, they headed to the birthing center, where she continued to labor, and labor, and labor.

In the tub. In the bed. In the shower.

Melissa was fully dilated but still only 70% effaced.

Having to resist pushing was more painful than actually pushing….

Finally, it was time. And after 4 pushes, baby Aurora was delivered. Melissa said she felt “like an electric charged lioness goddess creature”

I know the feeling, mama lion. Rawr.

Now, a little Christmas miracle from viewer Lizz.

Seems Lizz has beaten the odds. She welcomed her son Tommy four years ago on Christmas Day. And as we reported back in the Spring, December 25th is the least common birth date of the year.

[If you don’t count Leap Day, which only happens every 4 years]

The likelihood of giving birth on Christmas day is rare.

But what’s amazing is Lizz did it TWICE.

That’s right.

Three years later, Lizz welcomed her daughter Lily on December 25th.

Seems Lily wasn’t about to let her brother Tommy have all the glory; she came three weeks early just to hit the date.

The holidays bring many joys to us all.

For Lizz and her family, the miracle of birth – TWICE – are all the presents any parent could want.

Happy Birthday Tommy and Lily.

And God bless us all, every one – during this holiday season!

Finally, to cut or not to cut – that is the question.

The costs of motherhood are plenty. For some of us, this means bags under eyes, stretch marks, droopy boobs, the fragrance of the day being “au la spit-up.”

But no mother wants “mom hair.”

The helmet-ish, frowned upon, hormonal whack it off reaction to being a new mom.

And yet, one of the first things we want to do is chop our hair!

It makes sense… we question the time it takes to wash, and dry, and style long hair with only 2 hours sleep.

We tire of the Grab. Yank. OUCH….from baby’s tiny little hands that go STRAIGHT to mom’s hair.

Some moms find ways to cope. Like Beyonce. Her topknot or braids keep baby’s hands away while staying sleek and elegant.

Other moms whack it. Like Alicia Keys. She sported a new ‘do shortly after she became a mom. Coincidence?

Of course, Alicia looks beautiful. But for many of the rest of us, we have a couple kids and end up with hair like a Golden Girl.

Me? I did things in reverse, getting the chop right after I got married, then growing it long after childbirth. I actually find it easier now because I can tie in bun or braid without having to style it.

This brings us to our QOTW: Do you have mom hair? How did your hair change after you had kids?

Finally, I want to give a shout out to our beloved editor, Stan, who has edited around FIFTY episodes of the mama natural show.

Yes, it may seem like Mike and I do all of this on our own, but Stan has been burning the midnight oil behind the scenes, sourcing photos of breastfeeding moms and cute babies and adding all the shine and polish and effects to our show.

Sadly, Stan is moving on to some awesome new projects. Stan, we are so grateful for all your talent and efforts in making this show what it is. Thank you.

Mamas, hit that like button to show Stan some love. And don’t fret, the show will go on, it may just be a little less beautiful for a while.

Thinking you could use some of the photos in the Stan folder :)

There you have it, episode 70 of the mama natural show. Merry Christmas and happy new years. We’ll be back on January 3rd.

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Amy December 20, 2012 at 12:33 pm

Great idea to squat with your baby!

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Julie Baldizan December 29, 2012 at 10:59 pm

My mom cut my hair off (a bob) and permed it in the 4th grade! I looked like a poodle! I since then have let my hair grow long and have left it that way 4 kids later :)

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JILL December 20, 2012 at 1:13 pm

o boy! my hair changed from a mild wave to super crazy curly wavy after my two kids were born!

also, when my hair started to shed after babies were born, i cut lots of inches off in order to comb it more easily.

i do look forward to longer hair in the future, but for now it is shoulder length. i can put it up or down and it isn’t so long that it takes forever to wash, dry, and style.

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Christina December 20, 2012 at 1:35 pm

mine has gotten long. I normally just throw it up in a bun because dd will see any little hair and pull lol

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Kristin December 20, 2012 at 2:20 pm

I have always had short hair so the cutting versus not cutting was never an issue. It remained short. BUT, the gray has come in very quickly since having my first child 6 years ago. Now I have natural highlights!

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Melissa December 20, 2012 at 2:22 pm

My hair got a lot thicker after child birth, but then I became a vegan then too. It might be related!

I have vowed to never get a “mom” haircut. A stylist gave me a short unflattering bob long before I married or had children that I vowed never to do that again!

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Nikia December 20, 2012 at 4:27 pm

I have always had long hair so I didn’t want to cut it but it is always up because baby pulls it all the time lol. Also the worst part about the whole thing was my hair got really thick during pregnancy than fell out now I have this huge cowlick type thing right in the middle of my part because it has now decided to grow back six months later.

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Sara December 20, 2012 at 5:30 pm

I’ve had both long and short hair as a mom! I like to donate my hair in honor of a dear friend who battled cancer for more than 15 years and lost her battle this year. I like having long short and everything inbetween! As a plus I have donated close to five feet to a couple of different charities:)

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Beth Kelley December 20, 2012 at 5:34 pm

Thanks for featuring my story, and great focus on fitness, including how awesome toddlers are at squatting. :)
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Tanya December 20, 2012 at 7:13 pm

squats!!!!! seriously, i squatted every day for a least 10 minutes during my pregnancy, and i KNOW it helped me give birth to my son. thanks for reminding me to keep up that great habit! i just squatted while watching you show :)

as for hair, i haven’t cut mine since my son was born a year ago. it’s loooong now and really, I need a trim. but i will keep it long because, like you said, it’s easy to braid or bun it.

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Ashley December 20, 2012 at 8:25 pm

My hair got longer. But, only because I stopped taking as much care of myself then. I’m proud to say I got my 2nd haircut since my son’s birth. 18 months now!

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Rachelle December 20, 2012 at 11:48 pm

Yes I have mom hair and I love it! I cut my hair when my daughter got to the pulling on everything stage. I love having short natural hair. Now my little one and I have matching afros :)

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Yoonjin Kim December 21, 2012 at 10:21 am

My hair usually grows very slowly but I got a full foot of new hair while pregnant. I have really lovely hair, I mean truly. All I do is baking soda and vinegar it and it looks fantabulous. I don’t even brush it every day. My hair is my only source of vanity. I truly cherish and love my hair. I digress from the question. Anyway, my baby is very very strong. At 4 months of age she pulled out a huge quarter sized chunk of my hair while I was sleeping. I woke up crying from a nightmare about getting mugged and sexually assaulted, it was that painful! I started sleeping under the blankets, but by 5 months she had gained an early sense of object permanence and would claw more hair out. We had to transition her to a playpen crib because I have more nickel and dime sized patches missing from my hair. I loved cosleeping and I still miss it. It is 7 am right now and I still haven’t slept because I find it hard to fall asleep without my baby. But I am a lot happier waking up without nightmares and most of my hair. I know I should cut it but I plan on donating my hair. And really, I just love it too much to cut it. It’s so luscious… I love just touching my hair. Nowadays I rub the bald spot on my temple. It’s incredibly visible and truly embarrassing. I doubt cutting my hair would make it less funny looking. I’ve given up on looking good for sure! I don’t even brush my hair anymore haha

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Ashley T December 21, 2012 at 1:47 pm

I have continued to let my hair grow since my daughter was born 6.5 months ago. I cut it really short in high school and hated every minute of it, so I won’t make that mistake again. I enjoy being able to throw it up in a bun so little hands can’t grab it, but I like the option to wear it down as well.
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Earthmama December 21, 2012 at 4:38 pm

I did it ! I tried the mom hair ! After so many years of growing my hair long and it was beuatiful it cut it real short and i totaly regres it :/ but also because i realised i had to us even more time with short hair to style it. Like you said with long hair you just brait it or tie it up.. Well i learned my lesson :D

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Samantha Gordon December 21, 2012 at 5:04 pm

I’m already subscribed!

The only way my hair has changed since becoming a mama is that it’s gotten longer. I have been letting it grow for about a decade now, and pregnancy only made it grow all the more. It’s down to my bottom now. I do find i am wearing it up a lot more these days though because it gets in the way when I’m caring for my sweet Karena, who also tends to grab and pull it and even get it stuck in her toes!

Blessings!

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Joanna R. December 21, 2012 at 6:09 pm

I keep going back and forth about my hair! I tend to chop it off, let it grow, repeat. :)
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Cait December 21, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Mine was really long when baby was born, and I’ve trimmed it several times but love having long hair – it’s a lot like yours! It’s getting too long to do much with though, so I’d like to get it styled soon but keep most of the length.
And speaking of squatting…I just read an article on Mercola about other situations we should be doing that in! Guess I should have appreciated those middle eastern toilets when we lived overseas!
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AnnaChaykowski December 22, 2012 at 11:34 am

My hair kept falling out for a year. Also I was tired of babywearing and having my hair tugged. So I do have short mom hair. I have had a few cuts since also and I can’t get it short enough. People think I look great too!!

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Hannah December 23, 2012 at 12:41 am

I don’t have kids but I babysit a sixteen month old, and fortunately my hair doesn’t get pulled too much but my glasses get yanked off frequently. If pulling isn’t too big an issue, a great way to alternate between long and short hair is to let it grow out, and then cut it off and donate it. Locks of Love is a non-profit that takes donations and makes wigs for children who lost their hair from cancer treatments.

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Betsy Larrabee December 23, 2012 at 11:42 pm

In my post partum hormonal drop I decided to cut off all my hair for charity. I was so caught up in being sacrificial i thought that it would be so nice….Bad idea! It’s been in a pony tail ever since and I vow not to ever cut it above my shoulders ever, ever, ever (need I say, never) again!

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Christina December 26, 2012 at 12:34 am

I DID chop my hair! And I regretted it. Not at the time, but about six months later. I am growing it out still from that cut and it’s finally getting longer (about an in past collar bone length)! It was down to my bum before!
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SolB December 26, 2012 at 10:35 am

I must say that I did chopped my hair off 3 days before giving birth to my little peanut. I thought it was the best idea since I knew time was going to be an issue, well… I regretted, because I have curly hair and I cut it so short that I couldn’t even style it in a ponytail :( . It has grown now, but still it is such a pain to style it… So I pretty much wear up must of the time :( . I miss my curls LOL, although I have noticed that when I let my hair down my son has a blast pulling it while being breastfed( gently :) ) since it bounces back up…. Love the show and the good info. I’m an all natural mom too(natural birth at a birth center, breast feeding, homemade meals for baby, etc….)

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Kam December 26, 2012 at 11:34 pm

I hate to call it mom hair but I did “add” hair to my own to make it look better after the baby was born. I felt too busy to do my hair and couldn’t think about leaving the house to get it done professionally.

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Angela M. December 27, 2012 at 5:12 pm

I sure hope I don’t look like a Golden Girl but I chopped my hair off in July. My son was 17 months old though and I REGRET it. You are so right when you say putting it up is much easier, because it is! I’ve been growing it out since and hoping for a mess free pony tail by summer!

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Meagan January 2, 2013 at 8:48 am

Angela… I feel your pain… sort of. My SIL did the same thing because she saw a photo of short hair she liked and she was just tired of her long hair looking drab all the time. She cried when she got it cut and hated it. It was a drastic change for her since she’d never had short hair before. It looked great, but it was just different. The best thing she did to help it grow back quickly was to take a good quality multi-vitamin and drink lots of water. Good luck getting your ponytail by summer!!
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Amanda December 28, 2012 at 10:59 am

I had always wanted to chop my hair so I could donate it, but never had the courage. Once it started falling out I quickly realized I wasn’t going to be happy with my head of hair for a while so it was the best time to donate. I’m still getting used to my medium length hair and the bald spots are filling in so I am definitely ready for my long beautiful locks to return. But hey, they will be better on someone else’s head than in a messy bun on mine!

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Melissa Boyd December 29, 2012 at 1:04 pm

14 months later, I am still shedding!

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Renee @ Made By Renee December 29, 2012 at 7:28 pm

I cut 10+ inches off 6 weeks after my son was born – that was 3 years ago. I cut my bangs/fringe but not the back and it is past my waist. I want to cut it, but my son loves it so much!
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Michele Coccaro Benedict December 29, 2012 at 8:08 pm

Actually my hair didn’t change that much with my son but fighting cancer two years ago and having lost ALL my hair (brows, lashes, the whole nine yards), anyhow, after chemo and radiation, my hair came back very different! It’s super curly now and very black (was wavy and dark brown), also I have a sliver streak right in the front! Cray cray I know :)

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Brittany Nicole December 29, 2012 at 8:17 pm

I definitely think long hair is easier to deal with… you can just put it in a bun or a braid and go!

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M Elaine December 29, 2012 at 9:10 pm

I kept it long. I have a fabulous clip that I can use (almost literally) in my sleep! Keeps it all outta the way & helps hide the haven’t showered since (fill in blank) look! I did give myself a trim once as the ends were getting tangled all the time.

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Shannon December 29, 2012 at 9:45 pm

I grew my hair out for three years, when my daughter was born, I cut 12 inches off and donated it. I do miss my long hair but knowing it made a difference for someone somewhere. I plan to grow it out again while trying out new styles in between!

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valerie December 29, 2012 at 10:16 pm

I keep my hair long so it is easy to pull up. And it usually pulled up, no great styles for this mom.

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helana December 29, 2012 at 10:34 pm

thinking of getting it cut but only because i usually have it short… but i am 4mths pregnant so i guess soon it will be concidered mom hair lol

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Rachel December 30, 2012 at 12:32 am

I already subscribe!

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Brittany S C December 30, 2012 at 6:20 am

I plan on keeping my hair long. :) No mom hair here.

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Rhiannon December 30, 2012 at 3:57 pm

My husband says I have “Mrs. Brady” hair from the brady bunch!

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Teresa December 30, 2012 at 4:12 pm

I never cut all my hair off after either of my boy. The shortest I’ve gone is to the bottom of the shoulder blade more because I’m to chicken to cut it any shorter than to avoid the mom cut.

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Jennie December 31, 2012 at 12:05 am

I JUST got my hair cut off and love it :) . And I avoid graham crackers and gold fish like the plague! My son would love the snacks.

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Meagan January 2, 2013 at 8:44 am

I don’t have mom hair in the sense that I cut it all off once my baby was born, but I do wear it up in a ponytail… A LOT. Sooooo I guess that means I do have mom hair in a way.

My hair is long and I love it. It’s so feminine and there’s so much you can do with long hair. Recently I’ve started searching YouTube for pretty updos that are casual and not too formal to try out. So far I’ve had lots of compliments so it’s going well!
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Priyanka January 2, 2013 at 5:44 pm

I cut by hair recently and specifically told the sylist, “no mom hair, please” she did a great job :)

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Brittany Burns January 7, 2013 at 12:43 pm

I have long hair which is nice to toss up and way but i think a tight bun looks more like grandma hair then momma hair so my hubby makes fun of me. I dont wear the bun out of the house just for PJ days and night time. When we go out I rock the side pony tail and hold my son on the other side of my body.

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Caitlin January 2, 2013 at 7:53 pm

Hmmm this kinda is a little insulting. Are we defined by our hair? Is a move to a more convienient hair style after having a child a bad thing? When Dad’s cut their hair do people talk about it or even care? What are we in Little Woman? You know what I think is beutiful you as a mom doing a great job and I bet your husband does too. I can imagine it most be hard to come up with topics to talk about everyweek. I really enjoy the post on product reviews and stuff on food like the one on how to slice a mango was great. Simple but informative. But I guess that doesn’t help you with the Mama Natural Show side of things.

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Genevieve January 9, 2013 at 10:49 pm

I wear my hair in a bun or braid most days and often don’t even comb it! LOL! That to me is also mom hair. I loved this topic because it puts a “spin” on the stereotype of what “mom hair” should look like, etc. Some women care about their hair, others don’t and many of us are in-between. BTW, it IS hard to come up with topics :)

We’re going to be doing other videos this year. Got a little burnt out but feeling inspired to get back at it. Thanks for your sharing!

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Brittany Burns January 7, 2013 at 12:47 pm

I dont let my son snack on processed foods either. I did make YOUR teething biscuits and he LOVVVVEED them I refer the recipe to all my momma friends. I know everything is fine in moderation but I dont buy that stuff and I usually pack his food before we go anywhere. I am just happy that he is 15 months now and likes to eat what we eat and i dont even have to boil the fruit or steam the veggies anymore. That saves me more time to snuggle with him. mmm when he stops running heee. Another reason why I am so proud to still be breastfeeding him because I think i would have withdrawls from lack of snuggles.

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Genevieve January 9, 2013 at 10:40 pm

YAY! So happy to hear. It is a relief not having to make mashes and other pureed food. I still love breastfeeding too :)

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